Intermittent Explosive Disorder

“A spouse should never let oppressive and violent behavior, or the possible shame of exposing such, stand in the way of ensuring the safety of themselves and their family.”

What is Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED)?

Intermittent explosive disorder (IED) is a mental health disorder characterized by sudden episodes of intense and aggressive behavior that is out of proportion to the situation. These episodes may involve verbal outbursts, physical aggression, or property damage. In order to be diagnosed with IED, an individual must have had at least three such episodes within the past year.

Symptoms of Intermittent Explosive Disorder

Symptoms of this particular illness are bold-faced and obvious. The Mayo Clinic describes the symptoms as “explosive eruptions, usually lasting 10 to 20 minutes, often result[ing] in injuries and the deliberate destruction of property. These episodes may occur in clusters or be separated by weeks or months of nonaggression.” In addition to the destruction of property, the stricken individual might exhibit physical signs of stress, such as “tingling, tremors, palpitations, chest tightness, head pressure” and the like.

And while such behavioral patterns should be reckoned with the utmost seriousness, they need not be permanently debilitating. The medical profession has made striking progress in the treatments of such disorders.

How to Deal with a Spouse with Intermittent Explosive Disorder

A husband or wife should be acutely aware of any behavioral pattern of their spouse’s that might be indicative of a mental disorder. Outrageously aggressive or violent outbursts could represent a mental illness called “intermittent explosive disorder.” A spouse should never let oppressive and violent behavior, or the possible shame of exposing such, stand in the way of ensuring the safety of themselves and their family.

  • Many previously unexplained behavioral patterns or illnesses are now the subjects of intense medical analysis and, potentially, treatment. Explosive temper tantrums are one such behavioral trait.
  • The Mayo Clinic ( describes it as such, “Road rage. Domestic abuse. Angry outbursts or temper tantrums that involve throwing or breaking objects. Sometimes such erratic eruptions can be caused by a condition known as intermittent explosive disorder (IED).”

While previous generations including your parents,’ might have either glossed over or even cowered under such abusive outbursts, a spouse experiencing a similar occurrence today should seek immediate and professional counsel.

Resources for Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) in Los Angeles County

It is important to seek help if you are experiencing symptoms of intermittent explosive disorder. A mental health professional can provide a proper diagnosis and treatment plan to help you manage your symptoms and improve your quality of life.

Resources that may be helpful include:

  • The Los Angeles County Department of Mental Health: This department offers a range of mental health services, including treatment for intermittent explosive disorder. You can find more information on their website or by calling their hotline at (800) 854-7771.

  • The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA): SAMHSA is a federal agency that provides resources and treatment referrals for individuals with mental health conditions, including intermittent explosive disorder. You can find more information on their website or by calling their national helpline at 1-800-662-4357.

  • The Los Angeles County Crisis Hotline: This hotline is available 24/7 and can provide support and referrals for individuals experiencing a mental health crisis. 

It is important to remember that you are not alone and there is help available. Do not hesitate to reach out for support if you are struggling with intermittent explosive disorder or any other mental health condition.

Divorcing Someone with Intermittent Explosive Disorder

A divorced spouse should demand medical attention for their former abusive husband or wife who might still have access to, or even partial custody of, their children. Otherwise, a modification of custody terms may be in order. The Clinic’s website describes multiple treatments for IED such as, “anti-convulsants, anti-anxiety agents, mood regulators, antidepressants” as well as extolling on the potential benefits of counseling sessions.

Spouses should recognize any “abnormal” behavior in their husband or wife that is abusive or otherwise endangers themselves and their family. Intermittent explosive disorder (IED) is one such behavioral pattern, and frighteningly so. If you encounter such behavior, seek immediate professional counsel from both your medical attendants and attorney.

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