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Back to School – Finding a New “Normal” for Your Child

On behalf of Feinberg & Waller, APC | Jun 25, 2013 | Child Custody

Heading back to school in the fall can be a challenge for you in the wake of divorce, especially in a joint custody situation. Your child can also feel the effects of such an overwhelming change in the family unit, changes that will magnify with a new routine. There are simple steps you can take to help ease your child into a new school year without the added stress of adapting to sharing time between parents.

· Plan accordingly. Learning and understanding the kids’ schedules with your ex may seem like the last thing on earth you want to do, but it’s extremely important to know who has responsibility and when. The last thing you want for your child is to receive a call from the school because no one ever came to pick them up. You are both parents, and like it or not you need to be able to work together in that role.

· Lend a helping hand. Homework is often any child’s nightmare, but it must be done. Helping them with schoolwork can not only be a bonding experience for both of you, but it can also show your child that you’re invested in their education just as much as you expect them to be. When they feel your loving support, they are encouraged to do their best to make you proud. Remember: children live up to our expectations of them. If you expect them to fail, they most likely will.

· Give the school a heads up. Sit down and talk with your child’s teacher at some point during the first few weeks of school. Let them know that the family situation has changed and ask them to keep you updated. If your child is having difficulty dealing with the divorce, acting out at school is a common response and the teacher can let you know if that becomes an issue.

· Use direct forms of communication. Asking your child to relay information to your ex-spouse is unfair to them and extremely unreliable. If you need your ex to handle the parent-teacher conference next week, call your ex yourself. Communicating and participating with your ex shows your child that they are more important than your disagreements with the other parent. Remember, your child didn’t divorce your ex, just you did.

· Duplicate to alleviate. When traveling between houses, book-carrying can become a problem and a back-sore for your child. If you can, try getting another set of textbooks. It’s stressful enough if they leave their teddy bear at the other house -homework shouldn’t be added to that list.

If your ex fails to cooperate peacefully when it comes to your child’s educational well-being, joint custody may not be the best option for your family. Talk to a divorce attorney about making changes to the custody agreement to make sure your child has the best experience possible.

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How Do You Pick the Right Family Law Attorney? First, you must start scheduling consultations with different attorneys to be sure that your attorney is someone with whom you get along with and whose personality blends with yours. You need to find an attorney who is knowledgeable and one who has years of experience in family law. Price is also a consideration. When it comes to family law, this is not an area where you want to “bargain shop.” To simplify your experience in finding the right attorney, here is the Intake Process so you know what to expect when calling our office.

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When you call Feinberg & Waller, APC for an initial consultation, our Case Intake Manager will ask some basic questions about you, your spouse, your financial picture, and your case. Our Intake Process helps us determine if we can handle your matter while managing the needs of our existing clients. Feinberg & Waller, APC limits the number of cases we accept because we’ve found that selectivity advances our commitment to excellence.

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